Finn & Rebecca

Finn & Rebecca

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Our babies are home!

The twins weren't quite ready to come home on Friday as they still weren't finishing their bottles and the rule is, they have to finish all their bottles in 24 hours and then they can come home.  So we spent the weekend preparing for a possible Monday homecoming instead. And they caught up beautifully! On Monday morning, we got the call...come and fetch your babies!

Rebecca weighs 2.090kg and Finn 2.560kg so they have gained weight beautifully from their birth weights of 1.430kg and 1.940kg.  Also, they lost about 300g each in the week after being born so had to catch up that too.  I can't believe how well they have done in NICU with only a 4 week stay!

Instant butterflies in my tummy eeeek!  Finally after so very long, we would be welcoming our two precious little miracles into our home where they belong. It was incredibly nerve wracking fetching them and driving them home in their snug car seats looking so adorable.  They were hungry as we were just over feed time so the first thing we did when we got home was to start the feeding session.

Wow...we soon realised how daunting having two babies will be on a 3 hour cycle! On the hour, every 3 hours, we have to have everything sterilised, prepare the bottles, add whatever meds or vitamins needed, warm them, wake the babies, change the babies, get into feeding mode with burb cloth, feed the babies, wind the babies during and after the feed, let the babies settle, swaddle the babies, put the babies back to sleep. If all runs smoothly this takes an hour to an hour and a half.

Then I still have to fetch all expressing stuff and express milk for upcoming feeds. Then we have to wash all bottles, lable and store milk, re-wash used bottles and sterilise them etc.  Then of course there are the niggles - checking on the babies and making sure all okay and comfy. So all in all, we get an hour or so every 3 hours.  But try snooze next to them - not easy as they niggle and moan and cry every now and then so of course you are up in a shot to check on them. And this is every 3 hours, 8 times a day - 6am, 9am, 12pm, 3pm, 6pm, 9pm, 12am, 3am!!!!!! Because they are prem, they have to be fed every 3 hours so even if they are not awake, you have to wake them. They sleep, eat. wee, poo, have windy grins, burb, sleep, gurgle, niggle and eat again. 

This all sounds hectic and it is....but....how incredible beautiful and cute and gorgeous are these little treasures!  Having them with us is unbelievable.  It is pure love. I am under no illusion that we will take serious strain in the upcoming weeks and months, but every moment is as it should be.  I will treasure every second.

We have waited so long for this...and we will sleep again one day! I stockpiled enough sleep during 12 years of infertility!

Will add pics soon soon - just have to download from camera!

9 comments:

  1. Congratulations Cam! I'm so glad to hear that your little babies are finally home where they belong! I'm sure it's not going to be easy, but it will get better eventually!

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  2. :-) yay Cammy! So pleased that they are home with mommy and daddy to love and cuddle them endlessly!
    That weight gain is AWESOME!

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  3. That's truly wonderful news. I'm so happy to hear it!

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  4. How awesome that Rebecca and Finn are home where they belong :)

    I remember the 3 hour feeding regimine well with the odd 45 mins to an hour sleep... hard but oh so worth it.

    Enjoy every moment of this time with them Cam, it really goes way too quickly.

    xxx

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  5. Awe! So awesome Cam!! Yes, you will be exhausted beyond your wildest dreams but the euphoria of your babies will keep you going. And this hectic, crazy, mad schedule WILL NOT LAST FOREVER...it just gets better and better. Enjoy!

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  6. Congratulations! I'm so happy for you, and for your babies--they are so very loved.
    Best wishes,
    jd

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  7. Oh I am so glad your twins are well and with you at home ! No Joke, it must be sooo hard and daunting but it sounds like you are going to do the best out of it, with all the imperfection this includes !! All the best and wishing you lots of energy ...

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  8. I am so glad you have them home with you and that even if it is hectic it sounds to me as though you are loving it. All four of you are constantly in my thoughts and I expect lots of hints and tips on how you make it work, so I can learn from your experience. Huge hugs to you, H and those gorgeous little ones.

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  9. I am so happy that your babies are home!
    I hope that you enjoy every second of it although very hectic its so special and I am so happy that your little angels are doing so well
    xxx

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